(Entertainment-NewsWire.com, June 23, 2012 ) Plano, Texas – Some dating tips may not be as effective as they once were. Thus, a top dating website has downplayed a few of these online dating tips.
“Some dating tips are behind in times while others are up to date and relevant for 2012. A lot has changed for singles the past several years and an update is in order,” declared K. Chatman, who runs dating website Dating Advice For You.
For example, in an era with real-time communication, there is no need to wait for days before making a connection or reaching out to someone. Likewise, Mr. Chatman advises singles to get in touch as soon as possible to decrease their chances of being perceived as not interested.
A similar thing could be said for waiting a while before taking a relationship to the next level. This is perhaps a traditional rule that was probably in place for women and/or men to reassure themselves that they were not promiscuous. However, one of the drivers for waiting—to get to know each other better—could be accomplished after intimacy too.
“If you choose to go this route, ensure that you and your partner are ok with it and are aware of the potential consequences. It is also important to make sure that this action will not have a detrimental impact on your relationship moving forward,” K. A. Chatman said.
Most importantly, Mr. Chatman mentioned that it is ok for women and men to venture out from the stereotypical dating customs. For example, women do not have to wait for men they are interested in to approach them. If they are extremely attractive, these men may not come up to them for various reasons. “So instead of missing out on these opportunities, women should be proactive and initiate contact,” he concluded.
As a resource website for “matters of the heart,” Dating Advice For You is the online destination for tips, ideas, and strategies about finding your true love.
